Prepare For Death
— Fatherhood — 2 min read
The proper function of man is to live, not to exist. I shall not waste my days in trying to prolong them. I shall use my time.
This is a quote from Jack London, I heard about it in the latest James Bond Movie No Time To Die, and its meaning hit me hard. What are you going to do in case of your death? Death is all around us, it can hit me while typing this post. You never know when it is going to happen. What can we do about it, almost nothing, if it happens then it happens. I am not talking about health, you surely should take care of you body and mind, but what else can you do?
Getting your affairs in order.
Be a serious man when you leave this world and get your affairs in order. Taking proactive steps can ease the burden on those left behind. Create a testament to delineate the distribution of your possessions among those who would benefit most from them. This ensures that your assets are allocated according to your wishes and helps prevent potential disputes among heirs. Don't let the burden of your death extend beyond that. That means if you have a house, take care of it. Address its maintenance and any outstanding responsibilities. This can include settling outstanding debts, mortgages, or other financial obligations associated with the property. If you have money, take care of it. How will you distribute it?
The next step is to create a legacy for your loved ones. Consider documenting your life lessons, experiences, and aspirations through writing, recording, or any means that resonates with you. This serves as a personal connection and guidance for your children or those close to you, imparting wisdom, hope, and a piece of yourself that would otherwise be lost. By sharing your thoughts on what to expect from life and providing encouragement, you offer valuable insights that transcend your physical presence. This ensures that, even in your absence, your loved ones can draw strength and guidance from your perspective.
Don't leave them stranded and wondering what would my Father do...